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If you’re using the Law of Attraction to get what you want (as opposed to allowing it bring you whatever you happen to be thinking or worrying about), then this is a must read post.

When starting out using the Law of Attraction to get what you want, there are a number of common mistakes many people make. It’s important to spot them early on as they can slow down your progress, or even worse, make you believe that the Law ofAttraction doesn’t work at all. So watch out for these Top 5 ‘mistakes’.

1. You blame yourself for all the bad things in your life as you believe you must have attracted them. The Solution: Remember that everything that has happened to you up to this date has had a bearing on the person you are today. None of it has been in vain. Even though you might wish you had skipped a couple of bad bits, bear in mind that they have ALL been crucial to who you are today and in getting you to where you are. Have no regrets.
2. You only seem to get the small things you wish for, never the big things so you start to lose faith and give up. The Solution: Bear in mind that small things manifesting are actually a good sign as they mean that you are beginning to get the hang of things. Your personal momentum is developing and will surely increase as a result. Truth be known, you must get the small things before you can manifest the Big Things you want.
3. A deadline you’ve set for something to arrive simply passes without you getting what you want. The Solution: Try not tothink about deadlines or set goals that have a finite deadline on them “I need to get admission to that College this September” Trying to force The Universe to give you what you want exactly when you want it is a bit like insisting that God meetYOUR deadline. The Universe knows far better than we do, what is best for us in the long run. We are like children in a sweet shop. Let go of deadlines and focus on the feeling you will get when IT arrives.
4. You believe that for you to get what you want, you believe you need others to change - “my husband has to change if our relationship is going to get better”. The Solution:Remember, the Law of Attraction can only be used to attract things to yourself - you CANNOT change others. Change yourself and your world will change around you.
   
5. You haven’t seen any visible signs that you are making progress and start to wonder “when will I get this thing?” The Solution: Try to look for more subtle signs that will lead you to what you want. Often it’s not the more obvious signs that lead you to where you want to be, it’s the seemingly ‘unrelated’ things that don’t particularly look as if they will lead you to your goal that take you to where you need to be. So what you need to do is simply let go of definitive action for a while and simply follow your heart - if you suddenly feel like visiting someone you haven’t seen for a while, then do so. This may or may not lead you to where you want to be, but you have to learn to let go and start simply enjoying the journey.

The attachment to material things can often lead you astray. Remember, it is not actually HAVING something that matters most. It’s the joy that you will get (when you have that thing) that matters more. Often you will find that you can gain true happiness without actually owning the thing you desire by simply enjoying the feeling. Strange, but true.

So there you have it. 5 of the Top Law of Attraction mistakes and how you can avoid making them.

To Your Success,

GK

(Let me have your suggestions of Law of Attraction mistakes you’ve come across, below)