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Bookaholic that I am, I’ve already lined up a number of books for my Christmas break (in between playing with my son on his new Xbox 360 – ssshh, don’t tell him ;-o). I’m reading a series of books by Paul Dobranski (aka Dr Paul). He seems to write mainly for men ‘in a changing world’, but I see lessons in his writings for men and women.

He’s touched on a couple of things that I think are useful to those of you using the Law of Attraction to get what you want (or simply trying to get what you really want from life). Observing Ego and Personal Boundaries.

I’ll probably cover these in more detail in future posts, but in brief, Observing Ego is considering your actions as you are in the midst of doing things and then adjusting what you do in real-time. This is particularly when you’re in the heat of the moment and can prevent you from looking back on a situation and thinking ‘why didn’t I stop myself from doing that?’

Your Personal Boundary is literally the border around us that helps define who we are. We own this and we define what it is. Likewise, Dr Paul asserts that we ought to control this ‘border’ as a country protects its own frontiers. Rather than simply allowing every Tom, Dick & Harry in because they want to invade our territory.

Most importantly, he advises that we should aim to have ‘doors’ in our boundary, rather than an open border or, as some people have, walls that keep everything out. So what does this have to do with the Law of Attraction, you ask? Quite a lot actually.

I have found Observing Ego particularly useful in helping me to keep my rate of vibration high and helping me to stay on the path to getting what I want in life.

How? In Law of Attraction in 30 Minutes I talk at length about building your vibration by feeling grateful for the things that you want to attract and then preserving those vibrations (often in spite of other people’s efforts and negativity).

My post on my WordPress problems is a good example where I was able to use Observing Ego to prevent myself from sliding down to a negative person’s level.

So if you can practice using Observing Ego in real-time (and it may take a bit of time at first), you can protect your rate of vibration and get what you want sooner than if you allow others to drag you into their negative thinking.

How can Personal Boundaries help you with the Law of Attraction?

I’ll cover that in my next post (those who’ve been with me long enough will remember that my New Year’s Resolution was to keep my blog posts short ;-O).

Till the next post,

- GK

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